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One subject comes up in Internet discussion groups more often than almost all others besides health and getting rich quickly via multi-level marketing [note: ironic humor intended!]. Lots of people want to use the Internet to find somebody. Because this interest comes up so often, I wrote an Internet article a few years back, to address the need. My research is not the "last word" on the subject, and it is somewhat dated, but the basic logic here may give you a place to start and a way to think through your project, if you believe you need to find someone. It might also keep you out of legal trouble, if it prompts you to think first before invading somebody's privacy. Low Cost and Free Resources for Finding People On-Line and Off |
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In one other area of volunteer service on the Internet, I have a significant personal investment. A member of my family is being treated for a relatively rare chronic nerve disorder called "Trigeminal Neuralgia." This ailment can cause the most severe face pain known to medical practice. Even narcotic drugs are unsuccessful in relieving pain for many patients. In an effort to support patients, family members, and medical professionals who deal with facial neuralgias , a few years ago I teamed with Ms. Cindy Fleishman, a 20-year-plus chronic pain survivor, to develop a one-stop site for face pain information focused on these disorders. After over two years of Cindy's research and additional months of our co-editing, the result was a site with 120+ subsidiary pages that we wrote ourselves or compiled and abridged with permission from other sources. While this site is no longer available to the public due to the burden it became to keep current, we have archived our links and files. To tap into these resources, please feel free to correspond by email. Independently of my effort at Face Pain Resources, I have long supported the Trigeminal Neuralgia Association. I was a member of its Board of Directors for three years and webmaster for the TNA Home Page. The site provides medically authoritative information on the disorder as well as a gateway to a network of US and international support groups. If you know of someone suffering from a sudden, sharp onset of stabbing pain in one side of the face, please refer them to TNA or to introductory notes that I maintain here at "Giving Something Back." Unexplained Facial Pain - IntroductionBookmarks for Chronic Facial Pain A Practice Model for Diagnosis and Treatment of Face Pain Likewise, feel free to email me concerning on-line information resources. I have corresponded with over 2000 face pain patients during the past 14 years. Although I am not a doctor, I may be able to help you find a professional who is appropriately trained and experienced in addressing your pain management needs. As a continuing contribution to chronic face pain patients, I sometimes support patient support groups with presentations on Trigeminal Neuralgia and related disorders. In January 2003, I gave the following overview of recent research in facial pain, for the Bethesda Maryland / Washington DC TN support group. Feel free to download and print it out. However any further use of this material should credit the author and venue... Presentation: Recent Research in Trigeminal Neuralgia Related to this presentation, the following collection of Pub Med abstracts will introduce you to recent research on TN and facial neuropathy. I hope to update these lists periodically, between the demands of normal working life and other community service. Review of Recent Medical Literature on Trigeminal Neuralgia Review of Recent Medical Literature on Trigeminal Neuropathy Resources for General Healthcare Education In a more general sense, I may also be able to suggest resources to expand your personal healthcare education, in fields other than chronic pain. As a part of the community service work that I do on the Internet, I once supported three "Experts" forums at Yahoo. In the Men's, Women's and Stress Management groups at Yahoo, several resident volunteers answered questions from all comers, dealing with physical and mental health issues, personal growth, family life, and interpersonal relationships. Some of the questions that kids (and some adults) ask at Yahoo and other public forums might seem a bit outrageous to a person who has a college education. Other questions express urgent needs for help, voiced by people who are hurting, scared, or simply uncertain of what to do next. Taken in total, these questions reveal a lot about the health and personal concerns that occupy people around the world: Frequently Asked Questions About Healthcare - (And About Life) - |
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Meanwhile, millions of us are totally disgusted with efforts by entrenched political elites - including those who helped to elect Obama - to ram something called "health care reform' down our throats, which reforms nothing about health care costs and will almost certainly increase our taxes while burdening the medicare system. We also see Congress maneuvering to slip through an amnesty for illegal immigrants despite the outrage of resisting citizens. The bums continue with this idiocy despite the wide-spread evidence that voters just aren't having any of that stuff and nonsense. The feeling is widespread that something really fundamental has to give, and soon. There are many loose-knit groups of people in the US who believe that there ought to be an alternative to the mess we're seeing in Washington and our Statehouses. We come from all parties, and from no party at all. However we are united in believing that voters need an effective means of informing political elites that they have lost touch with the electorate, which is us. One proposal for doing that would be to insert a voting block on the ballot for every office in the land, for "NOTA: None of the Above." If NOTA gets a plurality of votes, then the slate is wiped clean and we have a special election where the previous bums don't get to run. I find this idea intriguing and perhaps long overdue. For an expansion of this proposal, click on Write In None of the Above During the months before the 2010 Congressional mid-term elections, both of the 10-year-old automobiles at our house will proudly display this bumper sticker: Congress is the Problem! And we will vote under that policy. If a politician has been in office before, then he or she is a part of the problem, not the solutions. Even the guys who protest that they've been trying to reform the rest of Congress, don't deserve to go back. If they tried at all, then they failed. |
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If you've found your way to my page and bothered to read this far, then you've probably concluded that I am basically a "people" person. I believe in reaching out to others whenever I can, as humanely and thoughtfully as I can. I believe in helping, contributing, and "giving something back." My time and knowledge are far from limitless, but I try to do the best I can with what I've got. I've had opportunities in a varied career to turn my hand to a lot of different subjects, and to dabble at hobbies, interests, and small businesses. Because this web page is about giving back, I invite inquiries on any of the following subjects. I'll do my best to find you good information or to share my own experiences regarding any of the following.
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| From the mid-1990s, my wife and I sailed the Chesapeake for six seasons on an S-2 Model 8.0B (26-foot) pocket cruiser. She was a lovely little boat who taught us a lot of things and was very forgiving of our mistakes. But with less than five feet of headroom below deck, weekend cruising was a little like camping out, without the ants. In the winter of 1999, we stepped up to a much more comfortable 1973 Bristol 34.4 sloop. Rafiki ("friend" in Swahili, or "companion" in Arabic) taught us quite a number of other new things. In the seven seasons we sailed her, she impressed us with her handling in both light and heavy air. We took her through the trailing end of a tropical storm in May 2005, weathering 30 knot headwinds, 4-foot chop and heavy opposing tides, without complaint from the boat. Finding deck leaks can seem like purgatory -- no doubt about it. However, the maintenance time on her deck teak was more than compensated for by her longer cruising range, sailing comfort, and stability in Chesapeake surface chop. She also scooted along at over seven knots on a close reach, when she hit that 'sweet spot' that sailors all look for. In the Spring of 2006, Rafiki went on the hard at Annapolis Sail Yard, and was sold. We've relocate about 30 minutes south of Charlotte NC, and will learn a new variety of life on the water, on Lake Wylie and Lake Norman -- in a smaller boat. The picture below offers some idea of why we were so happy with our sailing friend. I would recommend Bristols without reservation, for just about any kind of sail cruising. |
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This brings us to the bottom of my homepage. Feel free to write me, to share your journeys if you feel so inclined. Or write to pose a particular question. I'll help if I can, or I'll find somebody else to help. I'm here for you. Go in Peace and Power Last Updated -- January 2010 |